Showing posts with label blog. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blog. Show all posts

Thursday, 13 July 2017

One thing of One thing (by Daniel David Wallace)

Some time ago I came across Daniel David Wallace in my attempt to write better. I found his work great so subscribed to receiving emails from him. This week he shared the write up below and I thought to share this with you all.



If you are anything like me, you are very busy.
And it's natural, when one is very busy, to want to get more done in a day. That's why I often find myself reading books -- and listening to podcasts -- about productivity, about ways to become more efficient and focused.
After all, if you now produce, say, "100" units of effort every day, wouldn't it be amazing if you could, through some weird trick, produce "110" units of effort, or even "120"?
However, the trouble seems to be that "productivity," as people generally understand it, is basically nonsense. There is no secret, because there is nothing to discover.
Yes, I can easily imagine situations where help with "productivity" would genuinely help a person: if that person was struggling with poverty, or with depression, or with raising a child alone. In those situations, yes, I can imagine interventions that would boost a person's ability to do more creative, artistic, entreprenuerial work.
However, if you are a vaguely professional person, or a more or less functioning grad student -- a person with a relatively normal capacity to produce -- you are probably already at your limit.
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In K. Anders Ericsson's seminal study, The Role of Deliberate Practice in the Acquisition of Expert Performance, his team found that the "star" students of Berlin Music Academy practised the violin for basically the same number of hours each day as the "pretty good" students. There was no extra supply of practice hours that the stars had through their genius unlocked.
There was no augmented, leveled-up willpower that allowed the best musicians to stay in the practice room longer.
Similarly: Anthony Trollope is one of the most prolific novelists who ever lived. Over his life, in addition to working full-time at the Post Office, he wrote 47 novels (as well as several travel books, an artistic memoir, and collections of short stories). But despite this absurdly high output, Trollope stated very clearly that neither he, nor any other author in Victorian London, was able to write new fiction for more than a three-hour stretch each day. After this stretch of hard work, the creative mind was spent until the next morning.
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So.
Let's just accept that this is true: you are already at your maximum.
I still have some advice for you, however.
From all my reading, it seems like the key to getting more done is to do fewer things overall.
It really seems that key to getting more done lies in what you do not do, not what you do.
The reason why you aren't producing as much as that annoyingly "productive" person in your field is that you are likely filling your day, and your mind, with stuff you shouldn't be doing.
Here, I mean work that you have decided you have to do, seemingly important work that takes you away from your most crucial vocation.
I think that all of us creative people somehow accumulate a vast array of responsibilities and onerous side-projects. We may consider these tasks to be vital, even virtuous, but often, the people around us have no idea we are doing them.
Can you practise a little shamelessness for the next week or two? Try to see how many "important" aspects of your job you can simply not do, or do only when directly asked.
Try to see how many non-delightful social events you can simply skip. Don't be pompous about it: simply don't show up.
Of course, you shouldn't be reckless. If you try to back out of a work responsibility, and the rest of the office screams at you, well, don't persist.
But I think such moments will be rarer than you think. In past jobs, I have actually seen the very colleague who never did *that one allegedly crucial thing* actually get awards and commendations for their performance of that one thing.
Here's my other tip. Outside of your must-do responsibilities, I suggest you focus on one thing, and one thing alone, to make progress on.
Decide on that one thing. And then go one more step.
Now focus on one aspect of that one thing.
This rule is simply called: "one thing of one thing."
It's about setting singular objectives.
Because it's not enough to say, "I will finish my novel this year," or "I will become a professional blogger in fifteen months." Both those goals are potentially infinite.
You could go mad trying to write the perfect novel chapter, or the most ideally conversion-optimised blog post.
Ugh.
Instead, choose a goal, a focus, and then choose one singular standard or metric to guide you.
Nothing limitless, like "Finish my novel this year." That's impossible.
Rather set yourself a goal like "Write 1,000 words of my novel every day."
Trying to meet that one goal will clarify all your other life decisions.
"Build a professional blog by adding 12 new email subscribers every day." If you pick this goal, then everything else -- traffic numbers, likes and comments, the "respect" of your peers -- has to be essentially irrelevant. Just get those twelve each day.
It's only by settling on a clear, definite, singular target that you can get good feedback on your progress. The target tells you when to try something new, and when to stay on track.
It also tells you what not to worry about.
"Is my novel any good? Well, I don't know yet, but I'm writing 1,000 words of it every single day until this draft is over. Then I'll worry about quality."

If I come across other interesting work he shares with me I will share with you all :-) 

Until next blog...
Elisha Bano.

Wednesday, 21 October 2015

Dear Journal,




I have had a habit of writing/keeping my journal on a daily basis. I pour out my thoughts, keep records of important transactions of events that took place, keep track of my menstrual cycle, note down important meetings I need to attend and of course mark deadlines and try my level best to meet deadlines. I loved writing and doodling in my little books. For the purpose of convenience I have now diverted into keeping online journals. This lacks the doodle portion but it comes with selfies (#selfieLevelBoss). Making a long story short - it helps me deal with my days; good or bad. I am able to write at length some days and other days I don't write a single thing. It is my therapy. The Writing therapy and the selfie therapy. 

Recently I met a young girl online and we began to chat. She mentioned how she was lacking self confidence. In another instance I met a young woman who shared that she felt she was very boring. I shared my journal keeping with both of them. I shared with both of them my e-Journal project. And I am happy to report that they have been doing the same and finding that it has been helping them feel better. 

Now I am no therapist (yet) but I feel keeping journals and taking selfies, pouring our feelings into an electronic document (for our eyes only) and/or drawing/doodling how feelings helps to deal with some things. With that being sad I would like to point out that if you feel low; unwell; angry; or any other negative feeling and these feelings are persistent or if they are being counter productive to your life PLEASE by all means see a professional. You may take your (e) Journal with you to share how you felt during a certain situation as this would help your therapist understand the context better. 

So her is to keeping our thoughts in our little USB's or HDD's. Taking shameless selfies to feel good about ourselves. My mantra is; I am beautiful. That's just who I am. No one has to agree or disagree with me. It is about making myself feel worthy. It is about making myself feel worthwhile. It is about making myself important BECAUSE I know I matter. 

So until next blog ..... Dear Journal, Today I shared the e-journal idea with the blog page (dramatic music. fade to black)


Sunday, 27 September 2015

To do or not to do? What to do?



So much has been happening in the recent past and I feel that I haven't been able to keep up with everything. I try to. But I haven't been able to do so. Well, to be honest I m trying to keep up with everything, trying to give my best but there is just one of me and only 24 hours in a day. I feel that I have been taking on too many things on my plate. 
So how do I fix it?

Slowly, very slowly, I am dropping a few things from my plate. 

Step 1: List it.
Make a list of things I have to do and things I am engaged in. 
Step 2: Classification of list.
List down (i) How the group benefits from me present and (ii) How I benefit from the group. While for pending tasks (like writing and sorting through kind): (a)List down deadlines; (b)What is most urgent; (c)What can be done later and the World will not end if I don't do it right now?
Step 3: CRUNCH TIME. 
Making the cuts. Now The tough decision(s) of what to give my time and energy to and what to withdraw from. 
I have been telling myself that my withdrawing from a project or group/organization I am not QUITTING; I am simply making the leadership decision that I can't do everything and others things require more time and effort from me. So, rather then letting the group down entirely I am saying "Sorry guys, I need to step back because right now I can't commit to this". This has been difficult because I feel like I am letting the group/project down. But to be honest sometimes we need to realize that we can't do everything. And things we pop up that will mess up our plans/schedules. 
Step 4: Emotions. 
Don't feel guilty about things you have had to let go from your list. If it was a group you had to withdraw from, write to them nicely and tell them why you are withdrawing and that you would appreciate their understanding. If it is something from your to-do list that you feel you can't do now; strike it out and say bye to it. Think about the other things on your list that you can give more time and effort to now and enjoy that. Somethings on our lists become out-dated because we didn't do at the given time. Don't worry about it. We are not superHuman.  (although I like to think I am). 
Step 5: Time Management
Now that we have redone our list it is time to manage our time wisely and get things moving on this 'new' list. Give yourself time frames for each point and if your pass the time you can't go back to it. This may motivate you to actually do the task at hand and not procrastinate. For example; You have to write a blog article about '16 days of activism' and this needs to go out by 24th Nov because 16 days begins on 25th Nov. If by the evening of the 24th you haven't done this task there is no point doing it two days late when 16 days has actually started. Give yourself a few days before actual events as deadlines and work towards these with passion. If you are lacking the passion then it may be safe to say that it shouldn't be on your list of things to do. 
Step 6: Picking up the slack. 
Once we start to manage our time better we will be getting back on track with things. I for one feel refreshed and happier when I meet deadlines and strike things off the list as DONE! I reward myself with some 'social media' time; with chocolates or cookies and sometimes with a movie treat :-) we are becoming too caught up with gadgets. Being glued to the screens of our televisions; cellphones; tablets or even laptops/desktops are eating away precious time we can spend doing something more constructive. So let's pick up the slack. 
NO MORE!!! I SHOULD do this/that. It has to become I WILL do this/that. 

Let me know how you manage your to-do or DONE list. 
How do you handle the multiple group associations.?
What motivates you to get things done? 

Until next blog...

Tuesday, 26 May 2015

A bloggers photographer

PHOTOGRAPHY!! 
A hobby. 
            A profession. 
                                A passion. 
                                               A job. 
                                                      A livelihood. 
An art form. 
         Creativity.                  Imagination.                          
 Capturing memories that remind you of the moments for a long long time. 

I have done photography for Fiji Fashion Week, Miss World Supermodel, Weddings, Birthdays, Graduations and small family functions as well. BUT never before had I followed a blogger and taken photos for her/him to use on their blog. And definitely NEVER done photography for a blogger who has such a wonderful International following. But I did that today. 

This week (25th-30th May, 2015) during Fiji Fashion Week I am yet again working with the photography team. While usually I am stationed back of house with all the hustle and bustle the beginning of my week took a different turn. I had the wonderful opportunity of working with one of my favourite bloggers. Today I became a bloggers photographer. 
If you are not aware of a life unstyled than head over to Dr.Vanisha Mishra's blog right now! It is simply amazing. 

Our day started out early when I arrived at the wrong location! How smart, Elly! But when I got to the right place the day panned out smoothly. The sun was shinning bright. Vanisha looked gorgeous as always. 



The Fiji Fashion Week Team were ready and the designers were mingling with each other. 
Later in the evening we attended the movie screening of Dior and I that was hosted by Fiji Fashion Week at the Damodar Event Cinema. I love Vanisha's sense of style. Simple. Elegant. Classy and very fun! Just look at her in this cute outfit. She looks stunning. I wonder why she hasn't gone into modeling yet?

With me not being a very fashionable person I didn't think the movie was for someone like me. I just went along for the purpose of taking photos that evening. I stayed for the full movie and LOVED IT.!! After the movie it was time to mingle.

In the photo; BAU (White shirt- Director fotofusion Photography); Laura (white and red dress- Fashion Blogger); Vanisha (Black top- International blogger and PhD). 

The bloggers have a little chat time with Fotofusion Photography who are the official photographers for the Fiji Fashion this year (and have been since 2013). It is through this collaboration with fotofusion that I have been exposed to the Fashion week here in Fiji and have learnt a great deal about photography. 

By the end of the evening we were all laughing and making plans for the days to come. 

I have known Vanisha since 2005. This bubbly, forever smiling and extremely brilliant individual is a great friend, an awesome parent and a creative blogger. I have worked with her for the second time and have been loving it so far. I look forward to more collaborations and professional learning experiences with you Vaan! Of course we look forward to your wonderful writing re;Fashion week 2015!


My favourite photo of Vanisha from Day 1! 

Until Next blog; (Grab your tickets for the Fashion Week Show starting this Thursday). 

AEB-M